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| Tweet Topic Started: May 31 2016, 08:23 PM (1,493 Views) | |
| + Pointer | May 31 2016, 08:23 PM Post #1 |
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Okay so i was not that active here in the latest weeks, but it happens to be so that I am in a relationship for like a month And she and I are perfectly happy together BUt She went abroad to Germany..... for a job interview, and she left in saturday or something, She said via skype so that she has a male job guy stuff, you know who managed the whole travel and job interview there, and THEY spent every day together, watchin the stuff of the city together, castles, zoo dinner in a restaurant and the like of it..... Welll at the same time I am at home.... feeling f***ing jealousy since wtf.... its like they already "dated for like 4 times straight" And that s*** f*** it .... Have you ever had thiss kinda or siimilar kinda stuff to you , if you how in the blue hell did you manage to avoid feeling this s***..... I mean it literally bigs me off... I was not this inda jealous type person, but thhis s*** really makes me jealous, f*** that s*** I quit She come home tomorrow..... and who the f*** knows what kinda stuff did they secretly made together,,,,, FUCUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK iT MIGHT BE ALL NONSENSE BUT STILL rESTAURANTS CHILLING OUT IN THE CITY 4 DAYS STRAIGHT WITH A MALE .....CMON WHO WOULD NOT BE JEALOUS AFTER THAT |
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| * Mitas | May 31 2016, 08:29 PM Post #2 |
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You can't eradicate emotions. If you feel jealous, then you're going to feel it, you just have to be prepared to question those feelings. It comes down to one question: do you trust her? If you do, there's no reason to be jealous, so just keep telling yourself that. If you don't trust her, then the relationship won't work and that's an issue you need to work on yourself. You don't own her. You can't stop her from spending time with and talking to other men. You're just gonna have to get a handle on these feelings. |
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"Then you've got the chance to do better next time." "Next time?" "Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is." | |
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May 31 2016, 08:36 PM Post #3 |
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Dump her. It's only been a month and she's already being a hoe. |
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| + Sandy Shore | May 31 2016, 08:38 PM Post #4 |
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Someone who trusts their girlfriend? Is the job that she was interviewed for also in Germany? If so, then I think you should save yourselves a lot of stress by amicably breaking up if she gets it. Based on this, you can't handle a long distance relationship. |
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| + Clearin | May 31 2016, 08:46 PM Post #5 |
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Your problem is that she's spending time with a guy? I'm not completely sure what a "male job guy stuff" is, but it sounds like he's even just there to basically make her trip abroad more comfortable and easier. If she was cheating on you, would she bother telling you about the guy at all? |
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| + Steve | May 31 2016, 08:54 PM Post #6 |
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.
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If you want this relationship to last it would be wise not to over react, as Clearin just said if she was cheating she probably wouldn't have mentioned the guy. So chances are she feels comfortable enough in your relationship that you wouldn't be upset with her, if you turn around and suggest to her she may have cheated on you there's no hope for your relationship really you'd basically be telling her you don't trust her. I can see why you might feel jealous but at the end of the day you don't really know if anything happened so it's a bit unfair to judge her on actions she may not have taken. Being accused of cheating is almost as bad a betrayal of trust as actually cheating. |
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| * Stark | May 31 2016, 09:05 PM Post #7 |
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You can be jealous. Actually, you have to be, if that's what you are. You really cannot do much about it. What you must be on the other hand is trusting. Do you really think she'd go with another guy after a month of dating you? Just like that? Just relax. Don't give it too much thought and get paranoid about it. |
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| + Emmeth | May 31 2016, 09:06 PM Post #8 |
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You're good, bro. She told you about the guy and how she's enjoying her stay in the city, she seems pretty honest with you. Jealousy is a curious thing, but it all roots in trust. If you are jealous or afraid she'll cheat on you, you don't trust her. There may also be some insecurity going on here, you might be wondering if she can find a better guy or something, so that's something to work on too. |
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| + Pointer | May 31 2016, 09:54 PM Post #9 |
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its not like she actually "dated" but you know hang out with her job manager guy, I trust in her. I was a misunderstanding, just because I utterly love her... or idk I am out |
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| + Pyrus | May 31 2016, 10:19 PM Post #10 |
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You're either jealous because you care or because you view her as your property that someone else is stealing. If it's the former, that's fine, just talk with her about it and try to trust the strength of the relationship. If it's the latter, you might as well be honest with yourself and dump her. Find someone that's cool with being viewed that way. If she didn't do anything with the guy and is being honest with you, it's best to let it go and move on. There's no point in dwelling on a non-situation. It'll only lead to fear, fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate... Edited by Pyrus, May 31 2016, 10:20 PM.
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| + QueenTD | May 31 2016, 11:07 PM Post #11 |
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My Dear Melancholy,
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I hope OFG is seriously cause she probably said the most real s*** I've heard on the forum. |
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| + Emmeth | May 31 2016, 11:21 PM Post #12 |
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I ♥ Yoeri
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It's terrible advice though. |
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| + Pyrus | May 31 2016, 11:32 PM Post #13 |
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I don't think the situation calls for measures that drastic quite yet. Unless there's some kind of evidence or good reason to suspect this girl was actually being a wench or sorts... |
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| + Sandy Shore | Jun 1 2016, 12:16 AM Post #14 |
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I'm quite certain ObsessiveFanGirl had her tongue in her cheek.
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| + QueenTD | Jun 1 2016, 12:20 AM Post #15 |
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My Dear Melancholy,
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I was joking too lol |
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